1. When a girl says she's sad, but she isn'tcrying,it means she's crying in her heart.
2. When she ignores you after you've done something wrong, it's best to give her some time to cool down before touching her heart with an apology.
3. A girl can't find anything to hate about the guy she loves (which is why it is so hard for her to 'get over him' after the relationship's over.)
4. If a girl loves a guy, he will always be on her mind every minute of the day, even though she flirts with other guys.
5. When the guy she likes smiles and stares deepinto her eyes, she will melt.
6. A girl likes to hear compliments, but usually is not sure how to react to them.
7. When a particular guy flirts with a girl very often,a girl would start thinking the guy likes her. So ifyou treat a girl just as a friend, go easy on the smiles and stare ok?
8. If you don't like a girl who likes you, break it to her gently.
9. If a girl starts avoiding you after you reject her,leave her alone for a while. If you still treat her as afriend, talk to her.
10. Girls enjoy talking about what they feel.Music,poetry, drawings and writing are ways of expressing themselves (which explains why most girls like writing journals).
11. Never tell a girl that she is useless in any way.
12. Being too serious can turn a girl off.
13. When the guy she likes calls her for the first time, the girl may act uninterested during the call.But as soon as the phone is back on the hook,shewill whoop with joy and immediately start telephoning her friends to spread the news.
14. A smile means a lot to a girl.
15. If you like a girl, try making friends with her first. Let her get to know you.
16. If a girl says she can't go out with you because she has to study, leave.
17. But if she still calls you or expect a call from you, stay.
18. Don't try to guess a girl's feelings. Ask her.
19. Hearing the words "I love you" is a great reassurance to a girl that she is beautiful.
20. After a girl falls in love with a guy, she'll wonder why she never noticed him before.
21. If you need tips on how to flirt with a girl,read romance stories.
22. When class pictures come out, a girl would first check who is standing next to her crush before actually looking at herself.
23. A girl's ex-crush will always be in her memory,but the guy she loves now stays in her heart.
24. Girls love having fun!
25. A simple 'Hi' can brighten a girl's day.
26. A girl's best friends usually know best what she is feeling and going through.
27. Girls hate it when a guy pays attention to them just to get close to their 'prettier' friend.
28. Love means devotion, caring and happiness to a girl, in that order.
29. Some girls care about looks, some care about brains, but ALL girls want a guy who will love and care for them.
30. Girls want nothing more than to feel loved.
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You just want to cry when your parents and friends tell you "time heals all wounds." (Since every moment feels like an eternity to you, that's not such a reassuring thought!)
KEEP HOPE ALIVE If you start forgetting what you ever felt like when you weren't miserable, it's time for a reality check. Even after a very tough breakup, when you are feeling sadness and despair, it's important that you look over the horizon of those feelings and remain aware that somewhere, deep down, there IS a kernel of hope.
Maybe you don't feel it now, but you can see it off in the distance if you look. If you can't find it, keep looking. Remember this: you were not put on this Earth to be alone.

your instinct can be to hide from the world, stay home in your pajamas, listen to sad love songs, eat junk food (or not eat at all), watch brain-dead TV and cry all day long. This is normal. You should not feel guilty about "wasting your life" doing this...
because you're going to stop soon.
After a couple of weeks of hiding away and wallowing in your hurt feelings, you must pick yourself up and make contact with people again. Set a limit on how long you will mourn alone. Two or three weeks should be the very maximum.
Then get up on that day, say "today's the day I move on with my life" and force yourself to do something with other people

How many times in the past did you waste weeks being upset over something, and now you realize it was all for the best anyway? Or, how many times did you struggle through a hard time in your life, but later you realized that you learned something big from the ordeal? My point here is, focus on the knowledge that, given time, you'll be able to look back on your experience and take important lessons from it.
This may not seem like a helpful thing to hear when you're still in pain, but you have to intellectually know that you will take something positive out of the pain you're feeling now, even if that seems like a stupid thing to think right now.
Give your intellect some credit, and some say in how you're going to handle this time in your life.

You have to trust that, in time, the heavy fog hanging over your life will become clear. Until then: pretend, pretend, pretend. Don't feel like smiling your way through school? Try smiling at people for a morning. They'll smile back. You'll feel a teeny bit better for being smiled at.
You'll be amazed at how much acting like you feel a certain way helps you actually feel that way.
Tell yourself this is horrible now, but it was meant to be. Tell yourself that you know it's for the best. That you know something good will come out of it.


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